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  • Writer: dforsvisions
    dforsvisions
  • Sep 29, 2021
  • 1 min read

Finally arrived at a place where "it" doesn't matter. It took me forty eight years to get here and it has not been easy (my Fault) but I can truly say "it" does not matter. I was always concerned about what people thought of me, if they talked to me or not, or if they

liked me....well today it does not matter and honestly, how someone feels about me is not my problem, its theirs.


It is not up to me to validate nor justify someone's view of me or try to encourage or convince them not to feel/think a certain way.


It is ok to lose people and it can be a blessing to let them go. Not that they are not good people or Gods people, but rather they are not your people. I will say that letting go does not mean the person is possessed by some evil spirit nor does it mean you are evil and not worthy of love, it simply means, the relationship you have with them does not work.


"It" doesn't matter. To clarify, ending a relationship does not mean we can stop loving them. We are required to love! Ending the relationship does not give us permission to not be there in the time of need (not to be taken advantage of), and ending the relationship does not negate what God requires of us.


I encourage you to rest well tonight. No sadness shall overtake you. What you loss shall be replaced and what they lost shall be replaced. God loves them and God loves you.




 
 
 

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