Dishonesty/Lack of Honesty

Dishonesty: Deceitfulness shown in someone's character or behavior; fraudulent or deceitful act

Having someone in your life who exhibits dishonest behavior hurts, especially when the request has been and the promise has been given that no matter what, for the sake of friendship, relationship, and or partnership, that the truth will be told. We all have been dishonest at some point in our lives, at least I have in my life, but at some point we mature and determine nothing is worth being dishonest about. Sadly, some of us do not feel that way. Some find it either easier or comforting to be dishonest.

Is withholding the truth dishonest? Reflecting on male/female relationships, is it easier to withhold information from your partner or is it easier to invent a story? I would rather hear the truth so that I am able to make an informed decision about my next steps. But then again, if you are caught in a lie, you have made the decision for me.

From a female perspective, and mine not being the only true perspective, if all a man has to offer is a consistent state of dishonesty, are we in a healthy space. Why is he consistently dishonest and why do females allow it. Well there it is, the heart of the matter. Why do women feel obligated to live with a liar and deserving of lies. If we fail to see our value in regards of the amount of respect we deserve, how can expect a man to see it.

Today learn to love yourself differently. I know, I know, as we often say " I love myself", but do we love ourselves enough to walk away from all the lies? I want a honest relationship, not saying I won't lie about the delicious pie I baked knowing I purchased it, or he won't lie about how much he paid for a pair of Jordan's, but honest to a place where I feel safe enough not to cry about where you are tonight or who you are with; honest enough to be vulnerable; honest enough to depend on him; honest enough to submit and follow.

A dishonest man/woman causes strife (fight, struggle, contention)....whoever walks in integrity (honesty) will be delivered!

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