FLAWS

I have self analyzed this past year. Why? I had time due to COVID and because I realized that there were things in me that needed to die so that I could live. I noticed things were keeping me from advancing spiritually, financially, romantically, and professionally.

I will begin to share some of those things over the next few weeks. Transparency is an aspect I use as a growth tool......

Historically, I have been impulsive.

Impulsive: acting or done without forethought.

I have made a lot of impulsive decisions, internally justifiable, that made absolutely no sense and had detrimental consequences to my life. (For more specifics, you have to read "How I Got Here" available on Amazon, and you have to wait for the next book.)

I have quit jobs without notice. If I became upset with leadership, I would quit. When I did not get the schedule I wanted, I quit. And when I would receive a deficiency evaluation, I would quit.

This caused my family to suffer financially and caused undo stress on me.

In regards to relationships, well, I am single. Impulsive tendencies made me speak out of turn!

Impulsiveness may be a symptom of personal insecurities; And for me it was! Overthinking causes increases impulsive behaviors. I can never see something for what it may be ( work in progress) I analyze and dissect interactions, my thoughts, and the actions of others.

Think about every decision. Consider every possible potential consequence related to the decision you have to make. When you still can't make an informed decision, seek counsel. Don't rush to making a decision, take your time.