Sooooo

We often focus on visual characteristics when we consider engaging someone intimately….. and intimately knowing someone does not always mean sexually …

Most men want a “ dime” and I understand we all want someone we are visually attracted to.

Most women want someone who can pay most or all of their “ personal” expenses and I definitely get that .

The problem is we often focus so much on what we want that we fail to consider what we need….

I need someone who can pray …. If he is fine and can a pray, its a win!

I need someone who is willing to build with me. I know we have been trained to want a man who works but I have met so many men who work but never build with their partner. I’ll take a builder.

I need a man with a vision. Vision over ideas!

I need commitment. Commitment to communicate, commitment to be here, and commitment to make an effort daily.

And also on my list, a man who is not afraid to explore…. Mmmm

Ladies pray about what you need asking God to help you become that for the man He is sending your way.

#Purposed

#Destinedtobe

#itspersonal