Who Knows

Can you recall the exact moment you stepped out of lust and began having "different" feelings for that person in your life?

Do you remember the conversation you were having that caused you to look at the both of you differently?

Can you identify what about you is made better by them being in your life?

Can you envision doing life with them?

However, have you considered reasons why things just can't progress past what it currently is? If you are like me, you have processed, considered, and wrote the narrative in your mind a countless number of times....,

Are things just supposed to " fall" into place? Are cliches we have heard over the years true in regards to love and romance? " It will all work out, distance makes the heart grow fonder, if it's for you it will come back around"....who came up with this stuff....

Are we intentional about our relationships, whether platonic or romantic?

At this point, who knows.

Love and belonging is a human need. It can be a complex human need that many desire but also a need that remains unmet for many.

In 41 hours 36 minutes, it will be a new year. Whatever our thoughts are regarding love and belonging, if not healthy positive thoughts, put them in trash can.

Who knows if cliches are true, who knows what journey will lead to love, who knows.... if you don't take risk you may not experience love at all.